Idea
Does speaking less mean communicating poorly?
Short answer
Chapter 6 of Unseen Mentor emphasizes the quality of listening and presence in conversation. The number of words spoken is not enough to assess the ability to understand and connect with others.
In Chapter 6, Phương Bùi directs attention to listening without interrupting or rushing to offer solutions before understanding the story. These points offer another perspective to people who feel pressured to speak more or make an impression. Try allowing the other person to finish, asking about an unclear point and summarizing what you understood. If you want to give advice, ask whether they would like a suggestion. This is the article’s proposed application, adaptable to the purpose of the conversation. At work, it can still be necessary to speak proactively and express needs clearly. Listening helps words address the issue more directly. Read the whole of Chapter 6 to compare its theme of presence with your own communication situations.
